Doodlebugs and Angels

by Sandra Foyt on January 25, 2011

in Family Life

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Isn’t Grace the cutest little doodle bug? This little girl is a sweet dynamo whose opera singer lungs kept the family up all night, but whose ear-to-ear grins chased away the crankiness in the morning.

I think she is going to be just like her big brother, Shane, who looks like an angel when asleep, but is unstoppable when awake. He is a love bunny, who pelts his cousins with missiles and flying tackles, and then reminds them, with a sugar-sweet voice, “I loooove you!”

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But, then what would you expect, with smart, athletic parents who look like Barbie and Ken come to life?

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I love you guys!

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“It’s gear, not fashion.” I must have said that at least a zillion times to my kids while prepping for outdoor adventures. “Warmth trumps looks,” I advised while donning my long, black Michelin Man coat. It wasn’t pretty but it did the job.

Did the folks at Columbia Sportswear hear the lament behind those words? I will never know, but one day, out of the blue, they contacted me with a special request.

As your adventurous spirit will more than likely take you out into some cold weather this season, we’d like to invite you to participate in an exclusive field test we’re conducting this fall for our revolutionary new thermal technology… Omni-Heat.

Dave, at Columbia’s Marketing Team,  was asking if I would like a free Omni-Heat Reach the Peak jacket in exchange for honest feedback. Would I? You bet I would. And this was before I even saw the coat.

It was love at first sight.

Not because it was warm, although it was, no, I fell in love with the coat because it was pretty. It makes me look good, like I lost 50 pounds without dieting. (Compare the photo below to Snowfall Happy Dance to see what I mean.)

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I love everything about this coat. It’s formfitting, with sleeves that are roomy enough for comfort but tailored to make arms look skinny. Fine construction, well-placed stitching, and buttons at the pockets create the illusion of an hourglass figure. Even the shiny lining of the thermal reflective Omni-Heat is attractive, and since it’s so warm, it allows me to shed bulky sweaters too.

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The attention to details that help retain heat is impressive: high neck, fitted hem with an adjustable draw cord, and even stretchy cuffs at the sleeves.

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I feel pretty, oh so pretty, in this jacket.

For the first month, I loved this jacket so much that I didn’t want to risk getting it dirty on outdoor sports.

Instead, I wore it to business meetings and museum visits. It worked well because I could wear it over a thin top and skinny jean, without fear of getting cold. And it was so light that I could easily toss it over an arm as I went about my business.  Although, eventually, I realized that I had been missing a brilliant feature.

Hidden in a pocket was a small, silky bag that I discovered on a visit to the American Museum of Natural History in New York City just when I realized that, as light as the coat was, it would interfere with taking photos. No problem. I packed the jacket into the bag, and stuck it into the exterior pocket of my purse. And, as small as this was, I think I could have compressed it even more.

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Not just another pretty thing.

I might have kept it as my “good” coat, never to be used for schlepping or other messy pursuits, but I had promised to give the jacket a fair field test.

It was time to test the Omni-Shield’s advanced repellency on the messy, dirty business of being a ski team mom. Over the holiday weekend, while my children trained at Jiminy Peak, I helped them haul their gear to and from the lodge. I loaded and unloaded dripping wet skis onto a dirt-encrusted Chevy Suburban, often wiping the car with my coat. At the lodge, I dribbled and splattered hot cocoa, with not a single stain to bear witness to my sloppy eating habits.

Omni-Shield held its own against stains, and when snow flurries hit, I didn’t even notice any impact. However, the real test was on the ski slopes.

On frigid ski days, when temperatures drop below 10 °F, I wear a North Face Mountain jacket over a SmartWool shirt and a Norwegian Olympic Ski Team insulated wool sweater. It’s a toasty warm ensemble, but I typically look like I’m ready to give birth… to an elephant.

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I took a risk and shed the sweater layer under the Omni-Heat jacket this weekend when I hit the slopes, even as temperatures hovered near 0 °F. It was great. I was comfortably warm the entire time, and the jacket must have been doing a good job of providing breathability as I never noticed any excessive heat or dampness. However, when I returned to ground level, I did have to unzip because I was getting hot, but that’s to be expected.

 

Could be better.

Like any jacket, it is possible to get too warm when temperatures rise. I’ve taken to leaving my car seat warmers off when wearing the Omni-Heat jacket as it does get almost sizzling hot. But I consider that an asset.

There is just one improvement that I would like to see in the jacket. It needs an interior pocket, perhaps in a thin mesh material so that it doesn’t add bulk, but big enough to pack my Chapstick and inhaler.

The Go-To Coat.

After testing it on the slopes, I believe that I’ll be using this jacket more often for my outdoor adventures, in addition to using it for everyday activities. With Omni-Heat, I can look and feel fabulous too.

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Hey Sis,

For one glorious week, I was lucky to have two of my sisters visiting. It was a whirlwind of craziness, and now, I know, quite a few of you are impatiently waiting to see the photos. There are a number of relatives who are hoping to see photos of all the cousins, and most especially, the newest baby in the family.

Well, they’re coming, just not all at once. I have a LOT of photos, and many stories to tell about our adventures, so I’m breaking it up into a series of posts on the Albany Kid blog that I’ve titled, “Visiting the Capital Region with Young Kids.”

The first post, Seeing Snow for the First Time, was published today, and the plan is to continue it daily over the next week.

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In the meantime, here is one of the few group photos. You’ll notice, I’m sure, that it’s only got some of the cousins. That’s because we didn’t have a single day when all the visiting cousins  were free of colds or stomach bugs. Not that this dampened our fun. Illness just added to the general chaos, but we’re used to that.

Crazy mayhem is par for the course when the sisters get together!

Con Cariño,

Sandra

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First Ski Lessons

by Sandra Foyt on January 15, 2011

in Adventures,Mom Blog

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My kids have come a long way since their first ski lessons. They’re passionate about ski racing, regardless of good or bad runs. Both love the sport just for the sheer joy of it all.

When asked why she loves skiing, my daughter tells me, “I love the feel of the mountain, going fast; I love it on warm days, or cold, in good conditions or bad. I love every aspect of skiing.”

They each started ski lessons at Jiminy Peak Mountain Resort when they were four-years-old, but their first ski lessons took place when they were barely walking. One of my favorite photos of my oldest is from when she took her first run on strap-on skis; she wore the biggest, happiest grin. Even now, you can count on seeing that same grin whenever you catch her on the slopes.

Here she is on her first ski outing: Skiing Together, a guest post on Feels Like Home.

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The first snow ice cream recipe didn’t work out so well, but my son isn’t calling it quits. This time, armed with a recipe from Paula Deen, he is making snow ice cream with sweetened condensed milk.

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Verdict? I like this snow ice cream recipe, but then I’m a big fan of sweetened condensed milk in any form. Perhaps due to the higher fat content, this time the ice cream held its shape, allowing us to scoop it into an ice cream sundae glass.

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In the end, neither of us finished a scoop. My son didn’t care for the flavor; he might do better with a chocolate-flavored recipe. As for me, the snow ice cream was a little rich for my usual breakfast fare. Later in the day, it would be sublime.

Previously on The Journey Mom:

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Snow Ice Cream

by Sandra Foyt on January 12, 2011

in Family Life

My son has been dying to make his own ice cream, but I’ve been stalling. It’s messy, and who wants to eat ice cream in the winter? Well, he does, and he isn’t alone. Cold temperatures and even snow are not a deterrent to hardy ice cream lovers. A blizzard may even provide ideal conditions for a childhood favorite, Snow Ice Cream.

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With eighteen inches of fresh snow, and more on the way, my son tested out a recipe for Snow Ice Cream that I found on the Albany Mommy blog:

Ingredients:

* 8 cups Fresh Snow (liquid measure)
* 1 cup Sugar
* 1 cup Milk
* 2 tbsp Vanilla

Method:

* Put approximately 8 cups of fresh snow into a large mixing bowl.
* Add the ingredients – first 1-cup sugar, then 2 tablespoons vanilla and finally, 1-cup milk.
* With the help of a wooden spoon, mix all the ingredients well.
* Continue mixing till the ingredients are well combined and snow attains the texture of ice cream.
* Serve immediately, since snow cream does not hold well in freezer.

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The product was disappointing. It was more liquid than expected, and the vanilla gave it an odd taste. I’m not sure if he put in too much vanilla, or if it was the wrong kind of vanilla, but it had an unpleasant, almost bitter, flavor.

With all the snow on hand, I think he needs to try again. I printed out a few alternative recipes that I think look promising.  Too bad we don’t have sweetened condensed milk on hand to try out Paula Deen’s Snow Ice Cream!

More Snow Ice Cream Recipes:

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Canine Couch Potato

by Sandra Foyt on January 12, 2011

in Yoohoo Diaries

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Yoohoo knew his days were numbered. There’s a new couch potato in the family room who comes bearing a laptop, stacks of papers, and a never-ending mug of java.

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the_auntsOn the road to parenting a teen there a dips, bumps, and roadblocks. Often, you sail right past these with hardly a blip in momentum. This was not one of those times.

The past couple of weeks have brought us onto a rough, unpaved road. It’s been a tough time all around, but the saving grace has been that we were fortunate to have two of my sisters visiting at the time. Without them, we might not have discovered the extent of the problem, and we wouldn’t have been able to communicate effectively to begin the healing process.

By chance, we had stumbled onto a solution that Leonard Sax recommends in Girls on the Edge: The Four Factors Driving the New Crisis for Girls. Without going into details, I can say that the troublesome social crisis that he describes in this book is spot on. I highly recommend that every parent of a girl read this book, and I’m planning on reading his other book, Boys Adrift: The Five Factors Driving the Growing Epidemic of Unmotivated Boys and Underachieving Young Men, post haste.

In Girls on the Edge, Sax writes about the value of a mixed-generation community of girls and women (abridged):

Community matters. The kind of community in which your daughter engages will shape the person she becomes.

Co-rumination – But Girl Talk can be toxic to girls, even when they don’t mean it to be. When girls talk with one another, the most popular topics tend to include their own personal problems…All too often, the sharing and self-disclosure can spin into an obsessive rehash of negative emotion.

That’s what can happen when girls counsel other girls, because girls providing counsel to same-age girls isn’t the right kind of community. The right kind of community bridges the generations. The right kind of community involves girls learning from women their mother’s age and their grandmother’s age.

How can you provide a community of girls and women?

In our case, my daughter is turning to her aunt and another female adult when she needs to talk about matters that she isn’t comfortable discussing with me. She used to communicate with them via Facebook, but using social media has not worked out for various reasons, not least of which is the decision to eliminate her Facebook account. Instead, she calls her aunt when she needs to, and she chats in person when possible.

But, I can see how it would be healthy to have a group to chat with a mixed-generation group of females from time to time, even when there is no pressing crisis.

How can we find a community of girls and women? Well, we might have to create one. Leonard Sax suggests looking for such a community in your church or organizing a get-together with half a dozen girls and at least two adult women such as a sewing circle or cooking/baking club.

I think we could come up with a better list! How about:

  • Girl Scout Troop
  • 4H Club
  • Book Club
  • Lego League Team
  • Service Group
  • Outdoors Club
  • Music Ensemble
  • Theater Group

Personally, I think that given our demanding schedules, it might be more doable to have a less formal structure. I’m inclined to consider organizing informal dinner parties. No prep. No work. Just time to dine and chat.

What do you think? Got a better suggestion? Please share!

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Hey Sis,

Just a quick note this week to say, I hope the new year brings you peace and joy!

Con Cariño,

Sandra

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bathroom_before2My daughter dubbed the kids’ bathroom, which doubles as the guest bathroom, the “disgustingest” room in the house. And she was right.

When we moved into this house twelve year ago, all the walls were covered in dingy contractor-grade white paint. Little by little, we have repainted almost all the rooms, but not this bathroom.

No, these walls, which have seen more than their share of dirty handprints, had been scrubbed until the sheet rock shone through, and now they were covered with prints, marks, cardboard patches, holes, and even water damage from a leaky roof that was replaced two years ago. It was awful.

We didn’t have the budget to do more than cosmetic changes right now, but I’m happy with the results. It looks good enough to share with guests.

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